Our
nation is saturated with sports. A glimpse through the TV listings
will undoubtedly reveal several athletic events. ESPN, ESPN2,
Fox Sports, CNN Sports, ABC Sports, NBC Sports, CBS Sports …
you get the idea. Is there a day without a commercial-laden sporting
event somewhere in the world?
Something
is wrong here. Our society’s priorities aren’t right.
I’m
a sports writer. I love sports. I love competition and athletic
excellence. However, sports are not at the top of my list of priorities.
I find it humorous whenever people assume that because I’m
a sports writer, I watch every game that is on the tube. To be
honest, I can’t remember the last time I’ve watched
a whole game of anything! I joke with my wife saying that I’ve
got to be the only sports writer alive that doesn’t watch
sports on TV regularly. I’m not comfortable investing three
hours of my time -- time that could be spent with my family --
to find out what I can read about later.
Several years
ago, Elder William W. Parmley spoke at a stake conference in California.
(Looking back, I credit his talk with the beginning of my current
outlook on sports and the sporting world.) Elder Parmley, a cardiologist
by trade, told the story of a weekend trip he made to a medical
conference in northern California. He took a stroll around the
hotel grounds on Sunday morning and noticed there was a car convention
being held. Conventioneers were polishing, waxing, shining and
fussing over every detail of making their cars look good. Some
were on their hands and knees scrubbing and polishing under the
cars. Some were animatedly telling others about the efforts they
had put into their cars.
The scene
struck Elder Parmley as familiar. He recalled how Moses, when
coming down from Mount Sinai, found the children of Israel in
the manner of worshipping idols and graven images. How different
were the car aficionados from the children of Israel? Their golden
calves had four wheels and sparkling chrome rims instead of four
legs and sparkling udders.
Another correlation
was drawn by Elder Parmley as he recounted the experience of Paul
in Asia who encountered the worship of the idol Diana by the masses
who gathered themselves together in a theatre, chanting and yelling
in support of their idol.
Is our day
any different? Our sports arenas and stadiums are filled to capacity
on a regular basis with screaming and chanting fans. Are sports
our graven image? Are sports your graven image?
Elder Parmley
warned us of the Church of the NBA, the Church of the NFL and
the Church of Sports in General. There are others that can be
grouped into that cluster, but I think the idea is clear. Sports
can become our idol if we are not careful.
What
Think Ye?
I do not mean to imply that attending a sporting event constitutes
idolatry. Like I tell my children, if what I say doesn’t
apply to you, then don’t worry about it. In actuality, I
point the finger at the media and the glorification of the sport
and the athletes.
What are your
habits regarding sports? Does Monday Night Football take precedence
over Family Home Evening? Does the Super Bowl take precedence
over Home Teaching? Does watching the basketball game take precedence
over spending time talking to your children? Does Junior’s
soccer league take precedence over Young Men’s activities?
What about Sally? Does her basketball practice keep her from meeting
her Personal Progress requirements for the Young Womanhood Recognition
award?
Look, I’m
in the business of promoting athletics … it’s my profession.
I comb the Internet in search of the latest NBA standings, NFL
playoff pairings and sports results. I’ll catch a bit of
a game here or there on TV, but somehow, sports has found its
place in my life as I have learned to put those things that are
most important in the forefront.
I’ve
seen both ends of the sporting spectrum. I’ve been in an
arena filled with 20,000 screaming fans. I’ve seen the enthusiast
that paints his face and transforms himself into a Mr. Hyde persona
for 48 minutes of basketball. I’ve seen the athlete that
will forsake all in the name of “working on his game.”
But I’ve also seen the other side of the fence: a well-balanced
approach to all things.
A
Way to Judge
And that which doth not edify is not of God, and is darkness.
(D&C 50:23)
The above
scripture spells it out simply and succinctly for us. When it
comes down to it, the only thing that will matter when we stand
before the Lord to be judged is what we’ve done with our
time here. Is there anyone that has felt edified after spending
a few hours watching a football game on TV? My experience has
shown that doing such a thing has created an empty feeling of
having wasted my time.
Will the level
of competition that an athlete has risen to improve her chances
of reaching the Celestial Kingdom? Will the Church meetings and
programs sacrificed in the name of the pursuit of athletic excellence
be missed then? Will the homeruns, touchdowns, goals, slam dunks
or first-place finishes be a good substitute for the riches we
could have attained had we put things in their proper order? Will
having watched the World Series on TV have brought us closer to
our Lord and Savior?
I wonder about
the emphasis put on sports in our world … and I hope you
wonder as well.
The
Good and the Bad
I think I’ll continue writing about sports. I enjoy it too
much to stop now. Besides, I think that there is much to be learned
from athletics and the choices athletes make. In moderation, sports
can become a tool and wholesome recreation and, yes, a source
of edification.
Lest you think
this sports writer has lost all sense of fun and games, I’ll
close this week’s column with a few lighter observations
from the sporting world. Like everything else in life, there’s
good and bad in the sporting world. Following are a few examples.
(Feel free to submit some of your own)
Good:
Watching a home run while eating a hot dog at the baseball game.
Bad: Running home from the baseball game because
of the hot dog.
Good:
Checking the schedule for tickets to your favorite team’s
games.
Bad: Writing the check to pay for tickets to
your favorite team’s games.
Good:
Working out three times a week.
Bad: Passing out three times a week from working
out.
Good:
Reading the morning sports page over a glass of milk.
Bad: A glass of milk all over the morning sports
page.
Good:
Skating on ice with your wife.
Bad: Skating on thin ice with your wife.
Good:
Throwing the ball with your kids in the backyard.
Bad: Throwing the ball at your kids
in the backyard.