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Shall
the Youth of Zion Falter: Face Off With a Decision
by Kelly L. Martinez
Another in a periodic series that spotlights LDS youth in the sporting world that are making valiant decisions and giving heed to President Hinckley's counsel to "stand a little taller."
The
Paries Family
Alabama get
away
When I think of hockey, Alabama isn't exactly the place that comes
to mind. Yet, Alabama is precisely where the hockey family of Randy
Paries, his wife Kelly and their four boys found themselves
as a result of job relocation in 1990.
Kyle,
20, Kam, 18, Kory, 15, and Kris, 14, have played
competitive hockey since they were five years old. Kam, Kory and
Kris were teammates on the same high school team this past season.
In addition, all three participate in what is called travel hockey.
Travel hockey involves, of all things, extensive travel.
The travel hockey
teams the Paries boys are involved with play games in Birmingham,
Nashville, Atlanta, Memphis, Knoxville, Louisville, Cincinnati,
St. Louis, Chicago and Lake Placid, N.Y. It's not just the Paries
boys that travel, either. Mom, dad and the three boys make the trips
together, making for plenty of family time.
Kris,
Kam and Kory
Three boys?
But I thought ...
Oh, the other one? I almost forgot about him.
Kyle is living
in the Salt Lake area and is better known to acquaintances as Elder
Paries. An accomplished goalie, Kyle opted to forgo playing hockey
for something he felt was much more important. Kam credits Kyle's
example as a major influence in his decision to serve a mission.
Recently, at
the final team banquet of his prep career, Kam stood with his fellow
seniors as it was announced what each player would be doing after
graduation. Most will be moving on to college or to the next level
of hockey. Kam, it was revealed, has other plans.
"When it
was announced that Kam would be serving a mission, everyone already
knew what that meant because of his older brother's example,"
recalled Randy. "Everyone realized the opportunities Kam is
sacrificing. I think this is a great example of dedication and sacrifice."
Did you know
…?
A little known fact (at least to those of us not in the "know")
is that hockey players are not taken right out of high school into
collegiate hockey programs. For a player to stand a chance at a
collegiate hockey career, he must prove himself in the Junior Hockey
system. Division I, II and III colleges prefer players gain a season
or two of Junior Hockey experience before bringing them to the collegiate
level.
By sacrificing
the opportunity to play Junior Hockey, it's unlikely that Kam will
have the chance to play intercollegiate hockey after his mission.
No matter; he takes comfort in knowing that he is following the
counsel of the prophet.
"The older
I got, the more [serving a mission] became a reality to me,"
said Kam. "It got to the point that I thought that if I didn't
serve a mission, that would be pretty selfish of me. I realized
that serving a mission is something I need to do to help others
that are looking for the Gospel."
The
four Paries brothers
Some of his
peers think he's foolish for throwing away a promising hockey career,
but not all of them feel this way. A teammate, after years of playing
hockey with Kam, asked him for a Book of Mormon. He said 'no' …
JUST KIDDING! (Bad sports writer!)
Experiences
like this have helped Kam come to realize how sweet it is to share
the Gospel with others.
A delayed
reaction
Kam turns 19 in July, but is delaying the submission of his mission
papers so that he can see his brother Kyle, who returns from his
mission in late July.
Though he similarly
turned down the chance to play Junior Hockey, Kyle is hoping to
play on a college club team* sometime in the future. Even in his
absence, Elder Paries is doing missionary work. Randy regularly
forwards Kyle's letters home, via e-mail, to non-member families
that Kyle grew up with playing hockey.
The Windy
City
Each year, the Chicago Showcase features the best high school hockey
players from around the country. This year, as well as last, Kam
has been named to the Team South. This year's Showcase will be held
from April 17- 21.
Up and coming
Kory and Kris have also been playing hockey from a tender age, but
have stayed active in church as well. Kory is the teacher's quorum
president and Kris serves as a counselor in the same quorum.
Randy, who is
a certified hockey coach, is quick to advise parents to keep their
children active in church and scouting activities. The Paries boys,
who attend seminary regularly, are active in the scouting program
during the off-season as well.
Dad and Boys circa 1994
A firm foundation
Though his hockey coach often encourages him to delay his mission
for a year or two in favor of playing Junior Hockey, Kam has remained
resolute in his decision. That decision didn't just appear out of
thin air.
"I would
encourage others in my situation to find out for themselves if they
should serve a mission or not," Kam said. "Pray. Ask the
Lord if you should. That's how I made my decision."
*Similar
to intramural teams, club teams compete against like teams from
other colleges without the status of an intercollegiate program.
Schedules tend to be shorter than their intercollegiate counterparts.
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