M E R I D I A N M A G A Z I N E
Plant
a Seed of Faith
By C.S. Bezas
My five-year-old son
and I planted squash, onions, and cantaloupe seeds
two weekends ago. Neither he nor I had ever gardened
before — and to be honest, I wasn't so sure
we would ever see life from our seeds. Call me small
of faith, but it was hard to believe that I could
bring these seeds to fruition, that I could
make these seeds grow. I inadvertently had seen so
many green leafy things wilt and die in my life that
it was hard to believe I could ever be considered
a "green thumb."
Yet as a family, our new goal is to become self-sufficient;
within that self-sufficiency goal we know it is important
to learn how to grow your own food. So we planted
vegetable seeds this month. And I kept promising my
little son that if you plant a seed and water it,
putting it in a nice warm location, it will grow.
And so we watered that
black soil every day. Day after day my son would run
out to the patio to see if our "food" had
popped up yet out of the ground. Day by day it hadn't.
But we kept on with our faithful watering trips.
As we waited for the hoped-for-day of seeing a "food
sprout," we would talk about how it might feel
to see those baby plants, how good it would be to
take care of them, and how delicious to eat the eventual
fruits of our labors.
I'm pleased to announce the first of those moments
arrived three days ago. As we walked onto the patio,
watering can in hand, my little son shouted, "Mommy,
they're here!" Excitedly, he ran over to one
of the planter beds, his hands pointing and jabbing
in the direction of the first sprouts that had poked
their wee heads above the dark, deep soil. I quickly
joined him and knelt by his side. Together, we oohed
and ahhed at the tiny head of the baby vegetable plant,
at its brilliant green color, at the exciting moment
of new life. And quietly inside, I pondered the miracle
of a seed and how this applies to my work while teaching
the youth in the Church.

Two young squash plants see the light.
The Mysterious
World of a Seed
Although I've never been much of a gardener, I loved
my biology/botany class in college. My professor held
great enthusiasm for the plant kingdom and taught
us well. I soon learned what an awe-inspiring world
exists within the seeds of plants — and it is
so very similar to our youth!
Beneath a seed's exterior/protective seed coat rests
the endosperm, a rich food that exists to feed the
seed's inner embryonic package once it begins to grow.
But some seeds remain dormant for some time. It takes
moisture and temperature changes to initiate growth
(known as germination).
When the seed has absorbed enough water, the seed coat will crack. This allows the baby root to escape the confines of its "coat" and to begin to grow toward the light from the sun. Without this process, we would not have fruits, vegetables, shade trees, or any form of plant life. This then would leave animals without food, interrupting the food cycle we are so dependent upon while here on earth.
Youth are Like
Seeds
Our youth are so similar to seeds that it astonishes
me. They've come to this earth in perfect little packages,
just like seeds. They have spiritual "endosperm,"
an initial sense of right and wrong with which to
feed their embryonic spiritual sensitivities. But
just like seeds, without fertile soil, moisture, or
light from the Son, it will be difficult for them
to grow to their true potential. Without these essential
growth ingredients (just like seeds), many youth may
struggle eventually to escape their confining and
hardening "seed coats."
What might these essential growth ingredients be that
feed our youth's embryonic spiritual possibilities?
What can aid our young men and young women's growth
toward spiritual germination? This will vary depending
on the setting, but in a classroom setting, our youth
need to feel of our love for them first and foremost
(the fertile soil). They need us to prepare clear
lessons based on true principles (the moisture). And
they need the witness of the Holy Ghost as to the
divinity of the Son and God's love for them (the Light).
When these are present,
we aid our youth in becoming like Him in whose image
they were created. This is, after all, the purpose
for their existence here on earth — to grow
toward the Light from the Son.
There is Only so Much I can Do
The gospel works; it really does. Through some miraculous
manner, the gospel will feed a soul once it has germinated.
Therefore, I have learned that as a spiritual gardener,
I myself can only do so much and then I must rely
on the Lord to aid the rest of the growth process
for our youth.
Of course, it is essential initially to plant the
seed in an area of light. Of course, I must place
the seed in soil rich and fertile. Of course, I must
provide moisture. But after all I can do, the Lord
and I both must wait for the seed. It is up to the
seed to germinate.
Also, just as I can over-water seeds in a haste to
force their growth, I can spiritually over-water the
youth in my classrooms by attempting to force germination
on my own schedule. How tragic to forget that spiritual
germination cannot be forced. If we were to attempt
this, we would be most unwise. No, instead we simply
show up each day, ready with our appropriately balanced
measures of spiritual moisture, soil, and light from
the Son — trusting that the seed will one day
bear fruit.
In other words, we don't make seeds grow; we simply plant them and nurture them with balanced nutrients. The individual, with the Lord's help, must do the rest.
Some Seeds Take
Time
How easy to forget that some seeds may take a few
more days than their counterparts to pop up above
the soil. I'm seeing this right now with my little
son's garden. The seeds that popped up three days
ago are already twice the height of those that just
joined us today. Yet two months down the road, it
perhaps will be difficult to tell the difference between
the early-arrivers and those that joined the rest
a bit later.
Many of our youth are this way right now. Some are
just now starting to understand why the gospel might
be important. They're just beginning to get a clearer
idea of what the Savior might mean to them, even though
some of their friends grasped this way back in their
Primary classes.
Does it really matter when a youth comes round? Of course, the sooner an individual understands the significance of gospel living and what it can do for him, the sooner much heartache can be avoided. But even if some stragglers come at such late date as to surprise us, do we not celebrate their arrival? My little seedlings in our family's garden vary in height right now. Perhaps some of today's youth are the same spiritually. But who is to say that today's straggler won't be tomorrow's valiant?
Summary
In all my previous "green thumb" attempts
with mature plants, I had not been successful. But
I had never been the one to plant the seed. I had
never tried gardening from scratch. Because of previous
bad experiences, I had made the assumption my failures
were because of my inability to understand the process
and had somehow failed the plant. Eventually I gave
up, assuming I was not a "green thumb."
This then influenced my negative attitude toward trying
to garden from scratch.
I'd decided to try planting
seeds two weekends ago simply to follow through with
our family's goal of learning self-sufficiency skills,
not because I had any great expectations for exciting
outcomes. But I was proven wrong. Seedlings are sprouting
all about me in our little garden!
And through this gardening experience, because I started
from scratch, I learned an important lesson. As long
as I provide the water, the rich soil, and a sunny
location, the Lord's miracle of a seed can take over.
Growth is partially the plant's responsibility.
This perspective can help those of us who work with the youth at church (or even within our own families). We as adults might wrongly think that if a youth does not appear to learn or grow, it is either not happening at all or perhaps it is our fault. We could erroneously believe that if we don't have a perfect teaching environment, a perfectly prepared lesson, or if we're not perfect (immersing ourselves in scripture study, prayer, and full-hearted service), then our lessons will fail. We might mistakenly think we are the ones solely responsible for influencing change in a young person's heart.
From quality learning environments to the quality of our own hearts, all of these factors are important. But it is equally important to remember that if learning is not yet taking place, it is not 100% the teacher's fault. The seed does own the responsibility to germinate, and we must give it ample space and tender time to discover that fact.
As youth leaders and teachers, it is also important to keep in mind that we serve as only one of the many "tenders" for the Lord's newest seeds. There are other "tenders" — the parents and family of our youth, the bishopric, youth leaders, home teachers, and other influential individuals. These all constitute a part of an essential team of spiritual gardeners, with our youth forming the most important part of the picture: the ready seed.
Up until my hands-on gardening experience this week, I'd not fully realized the tremendous miracle of seeds themselves — both physical ones and spiritual ones. Our young men and young women must decide for themselves what they will allow into their hearts and minds. The Spirit of course acts as the primer to the whole process, but the youth will decide whether they will give place for the spiritual soil, the moisture and the light we as a team bring. As teachers, all we can do is be sincere, provide an atmosphere in which the Spirit can flow, and patiently await the germination of these still tender seedlings.
It is my experience that some seeds might take more water, others might take more fertilizer, but in time nearly all will sprout if we abide good-naturedly within our responsibilities and in balanced fashion. If we simply apply what we know, we can rest, trusting nature and the beauty of the "seed" within each child of God to germinate — if not on our timetable, at least on theirs. The Lord in His miraculous ways will complete the process. All we need do is begin by planting the seed and then stepping back to await the wonder of new growth.
C.S. Bezas' new book, Powerful Tips for Powerful Teachers: Helping Youth Find Their Spiritual Wings, has been called the perfect book for those who teach youth. It is available at LDS bookstores and by clicking here.