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Healing:
Some Basic Principles
by
N. Lee Smith, MD
I received
a phone call recently inviting me to discuss healing with a group
of health professionals at a local hospital. My first question was,
"Healing what? An illness? Or a life? Are you referring to
physical healing? Mental healing? Or healing spiritually and in
relationships?"
"Just
healing," was the reply. I thought this was a very astute
answer, because healing in one of those arenas usually affects the
others very significantly.
So, what
is healing? A popular dictionary defines it as "to
make whole that which is separated or out of harmony." Usually
this means something more than simply returning to the former condition.
The two parts of severed skin that have been separated and healed
are usually more strongly adherent than before the separation. In
the larger sense, healing involves becoming more fully alive,
enlarging the circle of our being to include more that is loved
and understood.
Healing has
to do with:
A bringing together: a state of oneness
A never-ending process
Empowerment:
Creating
an atmosphere that allows for:
changing limiting beliefs, or
expanding beyond them
Drawing
out a person's own wisdom and providing the means to actualize
it
It
is a though we have two minds:
Our operating mind: where we create thoughts by which to function
in the world.
Our core, wise mind: The source of our core values and wisdom.
This wise mind
seems to be that to which inspiration comes.
Many times,
the greatest source of our distress (which frequently affects our
health) comes from these two minds being separated, that is, we
operate by thoughts that are not in harmony with our core values.
When this is the case, the key to healing lies in discovering how
to bring the two minds together, that is, transforming the operating
mind to be one with the core, wise mind. This involves drawing out
of ourselves what we already know within: wisdom drawn from many
inspired sourceswisdom to respond in a way we would deeply
admire. When we can respond from such wholeness, we may feel a greatness
of soul and look back upon those moments with deep gratitude for
the strength to have acted in that way. When this happens, distress
transforms into eustress, the kind of stress that helps us rise
to the occasion, often drawing us closer to those going through
the stressor together with us. All of this turns us to our higher
selves.
Jesus, the
master healer, had a magnificent way of doing just what was described
above: telling stories that bypassed head thoughts to draw out inner
wisdom. Then, mostly through his remarkable love, he gave people
in need of healing the means ("grace") to have the strength
to transform old ways and habits that were out of harmony with their
deeper wisdom and hopes. And all of this showed up in his capacity
to heal them physically as well.
This connection
between spiritual / mental healing and physical healing in New Testament
times has not always been fully appreciated. Jesus said his ability
to heal physically revealed that he was able to heal spiritually.
There is significance in the fact that Jesus declared his physical
healing of the palsied man was accompanied by forgiveness for his
sins. Knowing he was forgiven certainly played a part in his
healing. (Luke 5:24.) That is quite a remarkable statement. The
connection between forgiveness and healing is further proven by
the fact that forgiveness and integrity to one's deep values are
the keys to feeling a sense of control over one's life.
Forgiveness
and Health
Forgiveness is refusing to blame any longer what someone else
has done for making us feel and act in ways we would never choose.
It provides the means to be and act the way we want to regardless
of what someone else has done, thus taking back control of our lives.
Such an inner sense of personal control has been strongly linked
with better physical and mental health outcomes in a number of studies1.
Forgiveness heals. To attain healing in the varied dimensions
of our own lives involves learning to forgive, and to receive forgiveness.
Jesus showed us how to do this. Of no small importance is the fact
that Jesus frequently began his healing ritual with his words, "Thy
sins are forgiven thee." (This same forgiveness is suggestedbut
frequently forgottenin the biblical passage about calling
for the elders to anoint the sick: James 5:14-15.) Feeling forgiven
allows one to give up the often mistaken notion that illness is
a punishment for some behavior, and to believe that what God really
wants most for his child is to become healed and well. Sometimes
suffering an illness can be the means to larger healing of soul.
The importance
of refusing to blame, and thus take back control of our lives, is
illustrated in Jesus' manner of dealing with the crippled man at
the pool of Bethesda (John 5:2-9). The pool had become a healing
shrine, since the cultural belief held that when the waters became
"troubled," the first person to step in would be healed.
(And it apparently worked, since the diseased continued to come.)
For years, the crippled man in question had been full of blame because
he had no help and was pushed aside by others in their rush for
the pool. Thus he was doomed to continue in his crippled state.
Perceiving that his victimization itself was crippling, or that
(subconsciously) this man may not actually want to be healed, with
kind sincerity the Savior asked, "Wilt thou be made whole?"
Then, disregarding his excuses, and making him face up to the central
issues and take personal control, the Lord commanded, "Rise,
take up thy bed and walk." And immediately he was enabled to
do so.
Many studies
demonstrate the incapacitating effect and emotional destruction
caused by feeling that oneís life and behavior are out of his or
her control. A low sense of control leads to all of the negative
emotions, including fear, anger, guilt and helplessness. (If prolonged,
each of these in turn can have significantly destructive physical
effects.) On the other hand, a high sense of personal control
brings all the positive feelings such as high esteem, confidence
and strength, love, patience and hope. Note here that we are not
talking about controlling others or the world out there, but rather
being in control of ourselves in responding well, with great wisdom,
to what is there. Feeling personal control, for example, one can
respond to provocation with equanimity, kindness and mature confidence.
On the other hand, feeling " I have to be upset when they do
that," is as if another person or the situation externally
had reached into one's inner mechanism, and taken control of his
behavior and feelings, causing these to be totally different than
what he would have chosen.
When a person
is able to give up blaming and victimization, and thus regain a
sense of personal control, great things begin to happen (in all
dimensions of his being: mentally, physically and spiritually.)
The key to this happening is genuine forgiveness. The power of this
concept to bring total well-being (health) may well be the reason
the Lord said that not forgiving is worse than whatever the other
did to us (D&C 64:8-10).
Scriptural
Definitions of Health
It is important to realize how central the concepts of "health"
and "healing" were to Jesus' purposes. We tend to connote
health in physical terms today. This was not so anciently, and in
fact, words for purely physical health are hard to find in biblical
Hebrew and Greek. Even in our own time, the World Health Organization
has defined health as "a state of complete physical, mental
and social well-being, not just the absence of disease." It
has been elsewhere broadly defined as "that quality of existence
when man is at peace within himself and in concord with his environment."
There may be meaning in the fact that the closest word for "health"
in biblical Hebrew is shalom (peace, completeness, well being, soundness).
It becomes quickly evident that these are precisely the ends toward
which the Master"the Prince of Peace (Shalom)" was
striving.
He came to bring
"salvation" to mankind. It is of no small significance
that the Greek word "soteria", translated as "salvation"
in the New Testament, was not a theological term originally, but
rather meant "health, safety and security in general."
Thus the "Lord of Salvation" is precisely the Lord of
Good Health and Well-being in its fullest sense, and all its dimensions
as defined above. While we usually think of health in physiological
terms (e.g. the ability of the body to withstand environmental assaults),
such resilience extends to all dimensions of human experience. The
difference between removing disease alone and real healing may be
illustrated in the episode where Jesus cleansed ten "lepers"
(Luke 17:11-19), but only the Samaritan who returned with profound
gratitude to God was pronounced healed (vs.15) and whole
(vs.19). Similarly, the Greek word sozo is translated in
the New Testament as either "heal" or "save".
So when Jesus came as the Savior, he came as the great Healer,
that is, the one who brings wholeness, and oneness, and peace. When
he healed the bleeding woman (Mark 5:25-34), he told her, "Daughter,
thy faith hath made thee whole. Go in peace and be whole""
Love, the
great healer
Nearly half of people coming to their physician with physical
problems have significant anxiety. Some of this is situational and
some is biochemical. Nevertheless, love has a biology to it: a shift
in neurotransmitters in the brain that can heal. Many studies show
a striking association being better physical health outcomes and
loving relationships. Also, relieving anxiety and fear results in
less illness. John wrote, There is no fear in love, but perfect
love casteth out fear"He that feareth is not made perfect
in love." (1John 4:18) And he that creates fear is not either.
Being judgmental (even with the best intentions) disconnects usthe
opposite of healing. That which brings oneness heals, and that which
divides us is in need of healing. Love brings hope, which also itself
heals.
So what then
is the essence of healing? It has much to do with:
Loving(both
giving and receiving) just as we are
EmpowermentGiving
and receiving a sense of personal control
ForgivenessReconnecting
and taking back a sense of personal control
Transforming
and deepening lifein harmony with one's deepest values
HopeCreating
positive expectation for something of value coming out of each of
life's situations
Each of these
has been clearly proven in good studies to be associated with better
health. [1] If one would be a healer, as
the Master was, or if one is in need of healing, these five listed
principles are the essentials.
Notes
[1] : Hafen BQ, Karren KJ, Frandsen KJ, Smith NL: Mind-Body
Health : The Effects of Attitudes, Emotions and Relationships
. (2nd Edition-San Francisco: Benjamin Cummings
Publ., 2001).
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