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The
Dream of the Open Door
By
Brandon Boey
Editor’s Note: The following missionary story
comes from Brent Wimber of Utah,
who served his mission in Texas in the mid-1980s.
If you have any missionary experiences
you would like to share with Meridian readers, please send
them to Brandon Boey at missionary@meridianmagazine.com.
We met
Robert Smith while knocking on doors in a lower middle-class
neighborhood in Midland, Texas (summer of 1985). My companion,
Elder Kunz, and I introduced ourselves to Robert as representatives
of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and told
him we had a special message for him concerning families.
He responded saying that he and his family was Catholic and
that he was not sure we could offer any new ideas concerning
families. Nevertheless, we introduced the Book of Mormon to
him and offered it as a gift from a member of our church.
He was curious about the book as he had heard of it before.
We got to know Robert a little. He was African-American and
a middle school teacher in Midland, Texas, and very well-educated.
He also taught Tai Kwon Do out of his garage at his home to
earn extra money. He was in his late 40's, married with one
teenage daughter. We didn't meet his family on our first visit.
In fact, I only met his wife once, and never saw his daughter.
I was impressed with this man but was unsure that we should
go back because he stated he already had his religion (which
was something many people in the area would say to us).
We copied his address on a card to keep for our records. I
thought I would never see that card or address again.
Days later, as we were in the same area knocking on doors,
my companion felt compelled to go visit with Robert. We stopped
by. To my surprise, he invited us in.
He began asking questions that were similar to others that
didn't seem sincere. Why do you have extra-Biblical scriptures?
Why did early Mormons practice polygamy? Why do you claim
to be the only true church when Catholicism claims direct
authority from the Lord?
We did our best to answer the questions. I simply thought
it was going to be another waste of time.
We asked Robert if we could come back and talk more. Again,
to my surprise, he said yes.
On our next visit, Robert's wife answered the door. She wouldn't
let us come in. Robert came out through the garage and invited
us in to the garage. He said that his wife wouldn't allow
us to talk to him in the house. He apologized and said we
could have our meetings in his garage, which really wasn't
too bad as it had been set up to teach his Tai Kwon Do students.
However, during my whole time in Midland, I never would meet
the rest of his family as they did not want us around.
Robert had told us that he had been reading the Book of Mormon
a little and was curious about it. We explained its ancient
origins and how it was translated by the Prophet Joseph Smith.
He was kind and listened intently to everything we had to
say. I bore my testimony of its authenticity and reality of
being God's dealings with ancient American people. He smiled
and asked how I could know that, being so young. I told him
that I had found out for myself through following Moroni's
promise.
Over the next few weeks, we got a commitment from Robert to
come to Church. He said he would come, and he did. That is
what I liked about Robert. He was a man of his word.
He was the only African American attending church in this
particular ward. I knew that this may be an issue with him.
But Robert seemed not to let that bother him. He enjoyed church.
He enjoyed the associations. Our ward mission leader took
great care in introducing Robert to everyone in the ward and
seemed genuinely interested in Robert's welfare.
After about six weeks of teaching Robert and inviting him
to read the Book of Mormon, during one of our last visits,
we simply told Robert that now was the time for him to decide
if what we were telling him was true. We asked him to pray
about the Book of Mormon and ask Heavenly Father if he should
be baptized. He stated that his family came first and he didn't
want to go against their wishes. However, he said he would
pray. I knew that he would because he was a man of integrity.
The next day Robert called us! He actually called us at our
apartment and told us to come visit him that night. He had
something to tell us. We weren't sure what that meant. Was
it time for him to tell us not to call or come over anymore?
I was somewhat depressed because we weren't having much success
in this town. There was a lot of rejection and I figured this
was going to be more rejection.
That evening, after we had a heartfelt prayer in Robert's
behalf, we hopped on our bikes and began heading for the outskirts
of the town towards Robert's neighborhood. As
we began our journey (about a 20-minute ride), we could see
storm clouds rolling in. If you have ever been to west
Texas, you will know that the dust storms are very rough.
We kept riding. The storm kept coming closer. We stopped and
looked at each other and decided we wouldn't make it to Robert’s
house in time. We were about to be hit by the dust storm,
and then the rain would follow.
As we looked at each other, something came between us and
we stared at each other. The feeling of the Spirit was strong.
We both new we had to continue to Robert's house. We both
almost simultaneously said that we had to continue.
By the time we arrived at Robert’s house, we were drenched.
The thunder and lightning were amazing. Robert was surprised
to see us! More importantly, he was happy to see us.
We sat down in his garage with him. He was aglow with excitement!
My whole bad attitude was changing due to Robert's demeanor
and excitement.
He told us that after reading some of the Book of Mormon the
previous night, he decided to pray. That same night, he had
a dream. He said it was very vivid and real. He said that
in his dream he was walking to our ward chapel building. When
he arrived at the church, he went to open the door. Just before
he opened the door, a woman of African-American descent opened
it for him. The woman told him she was opening the door so
that he could prepare the way for others to come in.
The hair on the back of my neck stood up. I was amazed! I
had never heard of anything like this in my life. I thought
things like this were urban legends of a sort. However, I
knew what he was saying was correct, as the Spirit bore witness
to me of the truthfulness of this wonderful experience.
Robert said he woke up immediately from the dream knowing
what he had to do — be baptized, despite his wife's concern.
He said he was so excited that he woke her up to tell her
what happened. She was softened by his experience and granted
him his wish to be baptized.
For the week before his baptism, we kept in contact with Robert
daily, either via phone or in person. We didn't want any opposition
coming in the way.
One week later Robert's baptism came. I was hoping his family
would show up. They did not. However, seeing Robert dressed
in white, smiling and genuinely happy, was enough. My companion
baptized Robert that day. I confirmed him — my first time.
During the confirmation I was impressed to say that he would
prepare the way for others to join the Church. I hoped it
would be true.
The ward members were great! They invited Robert in to the
Ward with open arms. I knew that they would fellowship him
well.
I left that area a few weeks later because of a transfer.
I was being moved to Dallas to be a senior companion. I was
sad as I wanted to be there to see Robert's growth in the
gospel. We had our sad farewells and I moved on.
I didn't stay in touch with Robert through much of my mission.
He had moved from Texas to Washington, D.C. for a job change.
I did come to find out, though, that Robert had eventually
received the priesthood, and subsequently baptized his once
reluctant wife and daughter before the move. How happy I was!
It made me truly realize that "...if it so be that you
should labor all your days in crying repentance unto this
people, and bring, save it be one soul unto me, how great
shall be your joy with him in the kingdom of my Father!"
(D&C 18:15).
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Streeter by day and artist by night — Brandon Boey wrestles with
numbers as a mergers & acquisitions banker for a living, and
with words as a writer of plays, fiction, essays and poetry for
recreation. While attending New York University, he was an associate
editor at Washington Square News, the university’s daily newspaper,
where he managed the features and business pages. Brandon earned
his degree with a double major in economics and communications and
worked as an investment banking analyst before serving a full-time
mission in the Taiwan-Taipei Mission of The Church of Jesus Christ
of Latter-day Saints.
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