Not
Just Pretty Music
By Brandon Boey
Author’s Note: Today’s
missionary story comes from Denice L Hurlbut. If you have any
missionary stories to send, please send them to me at
missionary@meridianmagazine.com.
The
grandmother pulled my face down to her level and kissed my cheek
three separate times the day Jenya was baptized into The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She was at least a foot
shorter than I was but very forceful, as Russian grandmothers
tend to be. By the third kiss, I felt comfortable enough to
ask her why she had permitted the baptism.
I
was serving a volunteer mission for the Church in Omsk, one
of the largest cities in Siberia. Several months before, a challenge
had been issued to the teenagers in our church group. They had
been encouraged to invite a friend to a church meeting.
Sasha,
a 14-year-old girl who had been attending church for more than
two years, accepted the challenge and came to church the next
Sunday with a shy classmate in tow.
Jenya
loved the meeting and began attending daily seminary classes,
where she was given a copy of the Book of Mormon. She finished
the book in less than a month and accepted an invitation to
meet with my companion sister and me to learn more about the
Church's basic teachings. It was not long before Jenya wished
to be baptized. My companion and I only had one concern with
Jenya's decision — the 14-year-old girl’s grandmother.
Jenya
and her grandmother lived alone in an apartment at the edge
of the city. The apartment had three crowded rooms — a kitchen,
a bathroom, and third room used for sleeping and living in.
For
months we met with Jenya and her grandmother regularly, sitting
on the edge of a foldout bed in the third room as we shared
the principles of the gospel and studied the scriptures together.
Although Jenya's grandmother came to look forward to our meetings,
she continued to believe that if Jenya were baptized into any
church other than the Russian Orthodox it would be an act of
betrayal to her country.
Occasionally
my companion and I encountered Jenya's neighbors in the hall
of her building. They spared no efforts in making it known that
we weren't welcome. At one point a drunken man even stopped
us to tell us that Jenya was a bad girl and that we should stay
away from her. He said that bad things would happen if we came
back, but we were used to harmless threats from drunken people,
and we ignored him.
The
next time we met him it was late in the evening. Jenya was our
last stop of the day. As my companion and I approached her building
we noticed a group of men sitting in a streetlamp's beam. Just
as many such groups of young men, they loitered near the building's
entrance in thick, dark sheepskin coats, exhaling indistinguishable
breath and cigarette smoke into the winter air.
We
recognized the drunken man from the apartment building as he
stepped out of the group and approached us. I didn't understand
what he said, but I knew something was wrong when my companion,
a Russian native, grabbed my arm and pulled me closer to her.
I also didn't notice the rest of the men until they were standing
around us, some holding bats and poles.
The
drunken man continued to talk, but all I recognized was Jenya's
name. It was the first time in months that my Russian had failed
me. My companion later told me that a sister missionary shouldn't
understand the kinds of things he was saying, and never offered
more of a translation than that he was threatening to do something
very bad.
As
he continued to talk, my companion leaned in closer to my ear
and whispered three of the only words I ever heard her say in
English: "Run very fast." She turned around and ran,
breaking through the back of the circle and dragging me behind
her. The group didn't follow us very far, but shouted that if
they ever saw us again, they would kill us.
When
the president of our mission heard the story he asked us not
to return to that neighborhood. We continued our meetings with
Jenya at her friend Sasha’s apartment.
One
afternoon Jenya arrived with her arms and face covered in cuts
and bruises, some the size of baseballs. Some of the older boys
in Jenya’s neighborhood had told her that if she didn’t stop
associating with the Americans and their church, they would
teach her a lesson. When Jenya didn’t listen to them, they pinned
her down and beat her.
It
was one week after the incident that Jenya arrived to our appointment
45 minutes late, gasping for breath. She carried a note from
her grandmother, asking us to please arrange Jenya’s baptism.
We did so with pleasure.
At
the baptism, I saw Jenya’s grandmother for the first time in
two months, and I asked her why she had changed her mind. She
explained that after Jenya’s beating she wasn’t going to let
Jenya meet with us anymore. The day of our appointment, they
were listening to the 2002 Winter Olympics on the radio.
Between
events, a clip of the Mormon Tabernacle choir was played and
Jenya’s grandmother changed her mind. When I asked her what
she meant she said, “At the beginning of the song, it was just
pretty music. At the end, I knew that Jenya needed to join your
church, so I wrote the note and told her to run because she
was late to meet you.”